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Tracy Owens's avatar

I am concerned about the election and will be flying all day tomorrow to Florida, which will prevent some of the doomscroll. I am also a mess otherwise.

We are now hitting what I call the dredged-up trauma part of the year, when I remember all the ways I contorted myself to deliver a perfect holiday experience for my kid by taking her BY MYSELF to Knoxville year after year instead of saying, "We live in Florida, suck it."

Two years ago today my husband and I went to see her in Memphis for the first time since lockdown. It was a great trip!

Last year her dad "blackmailed" her into coming to stay in Knoxville with his mom, paid for the trip, and "allowed" her one day with me and Ed. As it turned out, he screwed up the return ticket, and we found out his mom had paid for it anyway, so Ed stepped in and got her a first-class ticket back.

This year I got a message that "weekends are booked with Grandma," but she could see me on a weekday.

Okay. She's 33 years old. The other part of this story is that she runs way hot and way cold on her dad, who is a narcissistic child, and that Grandma is rumored to have hella lot a money that apparently everyone thinks they are going to inherit. I hope Grandma has secretly spent it all on holiday china, which is her weakness.

Anyhoo, as they say. I love my kid. I knew I'd leave her dad when she was 18 but had no idea the drama would go on and on and on.

Sorry for being a downer!

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Jon Nuelle's avatar

Yeah, @WRITEWITHSPIKE I got all the electoral feels, boss. And none of the joy. For the record: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ybrpFvHuOSmexxS5G0SxayBYo4CyWDTZsQ-J5Rg6cJo/edit?usp=sharing

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